A book by Jack Cole · @jack.cole.us
The conversation you've been putting off — the exact words to open it, and your line for each thing he's likely to say back.
JACK COLE
What to Say When It Matters
Ten conversations with a man, word for word.
TEN CONVERSATIONS
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CONVERSATION ONE
What he said. Nothing. That's the point. It's been months. He's in your bed, at your table, in your weekend — and nobody has said what this is.
What it means. He hasn't said it because not saying it is working for him. He has the closeness without the obligation. This isn't a man who's confused. He's a man who has exactly what he wants and isn't sure you'd stay if he said so out loud.
What to say. Don't say "what are we." It's a question that sounds like a trap even when it isn't, and he'll answer the trap instead of the question. Say what you want, then ask what he wants:
"I like this. I want it to be something — not just something that happens. What do you want it to be?"
He says "Why do we need to label it? It's good as it is." You say:
"It is good. I'm asking what it is to you."
He's just told you it's good for him as it is. That's not nothing — it's an answer.
He says "I don't know." You say:
"Okay. That's honest. Take a couple of weeks and know."
What to watch. Not his answer — the next fourteen days. A man who said yes will show it in ways you can see: he says "my girlfriend" to someone, he makes a plan that's more than a week out.
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The first book was what he types.
This one is what he says to your face.
Most women lose these conversations before they start. Not because they say the wrong thing — because they say too much. They arrive with a speech, he says one sentence, and twenty minutes later they're apologising for bringing it up.
So every conversation here is one line, one question, and then his silence. And the words for whatever he says next.
— Jack
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