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A book by Jack Cole · @jack.cole.us

What he's actually saying.

The message on your screen right now — what it actually means, and the exact reply to send. Word for word.

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JACK COLE

What He's Actually Saying

Thirty things a man does, what each one means, and exactly what to send back.

THIRTY SITUATIONS · SEVEN DAYS

Which one is he doing right now?

Six of the thirty. Find yours — each one has what it means, what to send, and what to watch for.

Twenty-four more inside, in six parts — when he goes quiet, when he won’t commit, when it’s hot and cold, when he says the big things, when he only wants one thing, and the seven days after you stop texting him.

Read one before you buy.

PART ONE · ONE

He says he's busy

What he did. Hours or days of silence, then: "Sorry, been so busy."

What it means. Busy is true. It's also not the point. Everyone is busy. A man who wants you in his life finds ninety seconds in a busy day, because ninety seconds is what it takes. "Busy" doesn't mean he has no time. It means you're not where the time goes.

What to send.

"No worries — hope it calms down soon."

Nothing else. No "I missed you." No "when are you free?" You've accepted the excuse at face value and given him nothing to push against.

What to watch. Does he come back with a plan, or with more "busy"? A man who's actually busy and actually interested says "this week is insane — Saturday?" A man who's managing you says "yeah, crazy week" and goes quiet again.

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Jack Cole

I'm not an expert on men.
I'm one of them.

I've sent "busy" when I meant something else. I've texted at eleven and meant exactly what you think. I've said "I need some space" when I meant I was leaving and didn't want the conversation.

So this isn't a theory about men. It's what we actually mean, from the side that means it — thirty things we do, and the reply that gets you the truth in two days instead of two years.

Some of these don't have a happy ending. I won't sell you a text that fixes a man who's already decided. I'll tell you which ones those are.

And if I'm wrong about yours, tell me. Thirty days, every cent back.

— Jack

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Your library has a personal link that opens it on your phone, tablet or computer — one tap sends it to your own email. And there's a PDF or EPUB to download if you'd like a copy.

How long is it?
33 pages, about 8,000 words — under an hour if you read it straight through. But it's built to be opened at the one situation you're in.
Is it a PDF? Do I have to download anything?
Nothing to install. It opens as a web page in whatever browser you already use — and inside there's a Download as PDF button, if you'd rather keep a copy.
Can I read it on my phone?
Yes — phone, tablet or computer, whichever you like. It opens on the one you pay on. For the others, open the personal link from your library, and it stays open there after that.
What shows on my card statement?
Whop — the company that takes the payment. Not the name of the book, and not mine.
Is it for me if it's been years, or it's complicated?
It's written for a man you're seeing or texting — three weeks in, or three years in with no name on it. It isn't marriage counselling and doesn't pretend to be. If your situation is one of the thirty on the list above, it's for you.
What if I change phones, or lose the link?
Write to jackcoleus@proton.me from the address you paid with, and I'll send you your link the same day.
What if I don't like it?
Write to jackcoleus@proton.me within 30 days, from the address you paid with, and say refund. Every cent back, and I won't ask why.

JACK COLE

What He's Actually Saying

30 SITUATIONS · 7 DAYS

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